Kindness, care, and love can be developed as traits of character by habitual practice. Practicing self-restraint, care, and kindness will strengthen by practice.
Established bad habits can only be modified by severe training in adulthood. It takes persistent warfare and energy to overcome bad habits. Right thoughts and actions can become habitual. We can secure this result only by right thinking. As a man “thinketh in his heart, so is he” (Proverbs 23:7). “The power of self-restraint strengthens by exercise. That which at first seems difficult, by constant repetition grows easy, and right thoughts and actions become habitual.” The Ministry of Healing, p. 491
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:  (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)  Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
In this episode of our Importance of church live talk program I cover Practice kindness care and love will develop those traits. Highlighting the question, why belonging to a church, and why doing church properly is important. Covering benefits gained when a believer belongs to a properly functioning church with elder, deacon, and deaconess. To listen to revive reform radio go to http://www.revivereform.org/radio/