You must be honest with your situation and recognize you are not Chad, humble yourself, and go at life a different way. It is not that you cannot get success, but you must be true to your situation and start from an honest assessment.
Every tub must stand on its own bottom. Get hard and get going, fight manfully onward. We must learn to fight for our own survival. You got to make it happen, no one is going to make your dreams come through, you got to aggressively go for yours.
Luke 14: 27 And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. 28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? 29 Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, 30 Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. 31 Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? 32 Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace.
In this episode of our Importance of church live talk program I cover Be honest with your situation you are not Chad. Highlighting the question, why belonging to a church, and why doing church properly is important. Covering benefits gained when a believer belongs to a properly functioning church with elder, deacon, and deaconess. To listen to revive reform radio go to http://www.revivereform.org/radio/